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Where do you touch a guy for the first time kissing?

Hold his hand or put your arms over his shoulders. Start moving your body so that he's much closer to you; it'll be awkward if you have to move a long way to kiss him. Touch his hair or face to make him know that you are interested. Gently touch his nose with your pointer finger and smile at him.

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This article was co-authored by Eddy Baller . Eddy Baller is a Dating Coach based in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. Coaching since 2011, Eddy specializes in confidence building, advanced social skills and relationships. He runs his own dating consulting and coaching service named Conquer and Win, the only BBB accredited dating coaching business in Vancouver. Conquer and Win helps men worldwide have the love lives they deserve. His work has been featured in The Art of Manliness, LifeHack, and POF among others. This article has been viewed 3,794,577 times.

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To make your first kiss with a boy as fun and romantic as possible, take a little time to prepare ahead if you can. Brush your teeth or use a breath mint, and put on a little lip balm to soften your lips. Find a quiet, private place where you can get up close and personal without being distracted or interrupted. To set the mood, flirt with your guy a little bit before going in for the kiss. Look for romantic ways to break the touch barrier, like holding his hand, stroking his hair or face, or putting an arm around him. When the moment seems right, lock eyes with him and move your face close to his. If he’s feeling it, he’ll probably lean in, too. But if you’re not sure, you can always ask him. Say something like, “I really want to kiss you right now. Is that okay?” Once you get the green light, close your eyes, tilt your head slightly to one side, and gently press your lips to his. Keep your lips relaxed and slightly parted instead of puckering up. As you kiss him, you can also put your arms around his waist, caress his arms or shoulders, or stroke his hair and face with your hands. Let the kiss linger for about 5 seconds, and remember to breathe in and out through your nose. When you’re done, gently pull back a little bit. Open your eyes, make eye contact with him, and smile. If you enjoyed the kiss, give his confidence a boost by saying something like, “That was amazing,” or “You’re such a good kisser.” From there, you can either move on with your conversation or turn it into a longer make out session—just try to relax and do whatever feels natural. For more tips, including how to compliment a boy after kissing him for the first time, read on!

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Where to put your lips while making out?

Lean in and lightly press your lips to your partner's. Line up your mouths so that your upper lip is between their lips and your bottom one is underneath theirs. You can also put their upper lip between yours if that feels more comfortable. Don't push too hard against their lips.

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The secret to a great French kiss is intense chemistry, so let that spark guide your actions, instead of overthinking it. Vary the movement and speed of your tongue, slowly increasing the intensity as the kiss goes on. Don’t be too forceful with your tongue, either, or let it just flop around.

Do’s and Don’ts of Using Tongue When Kissing

Do pay attention to your partner’s rhythm. Mirror what they’re doing with their tongue, whether it means speeding up or slowing down to get in sync. Do try the secret message trick. Spell out a word or phrase with the tip of your tongue. Ask your partner to guess what it is. Don’t go in with tongue right away. Start with a soft closed-mouth kiss, then slip a little tongue in as the kiss deepens. Don’t use too much tongue or saliva. A kiss that’s too wet or a tongue shoved down your throat is a major turn-off. Remember that less is more.[5]

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