Soulmate Gem
Photo by Samuel Dostál Pexels Logo Photo: Samuel Dostál

What triggers attraction?

Emotional attraction is all about how you make another person FEEL. It can be triggered in a variety of ways: through touch, pheromones, body language, behavior, the tone of your voice, humor, confidence, and vulnerability.

Who rules the Age of Aquarius?
Who rules the Age of Aquarius?

It's a rebel with a cause, and sometimes without one. In traditional astrology Aquarius was governed or ruled by the planet Saturn, though many...

Read More »
What zodiac is hot cold?
What zodiac is hot cold?

Triplicities by season Sign Element Qualities Libra Air Hot & Wet Scorpio Water Cold & Wet Sagittarius Fire Hot & Dry Capricorn Earth Cold & Dry 8...

Read More »

So let's get to the interesting stuff now: emotional attraction and how to build it with another person. Emotional attraction is all about how you make another person FEEL. It can be triggered in a variety of ways: through touch, pheromones, body language, behavior, the tone of your voice, humor, confidence, and vulnerability. (Vulnerability is a really big one.) You see, all these things are not that enticing to talk about because they're not as practical as telling someone, “Hey, just go to the gym five times a week, develop six-pack abs, and women are going to want you!” (Even though that's total bullshit, not true, and I'm living proof of that.) Emotions are also weird and sometimes difficult to understand. For example, it's much better usually to elicit a negative emotion in a person than to trigger no emotion whatsoever. The worst situation, especially in romance, is the middle. It's when you stay in that weird gray area where people are just indifferent about you.

Why is that? Why is it better to trigger a negative emotion than no emotion whatsoever?

To fall in love, people need to have a mental image of you. You can't fall in love with another person if you don't have a mental image of them. If you don't even think about another person, then there can't be any chance for love. A negative emotion seems like a worse outcome than just staying in the neutral zone where people don't think negatively or positively about you. In reality, even if someone feels a negative emotion towards you, they're going to think about you a lot. They're going to think, “Oh, that asshole. Why did he say that? He's such an arrogant prick.” We have all seen it countless times in movies, and maybe you've also seen it in real life: where the woman is a real sweetheart, and theoretically, she'd be so happy with any of the nice guys that all want her, but she still picks the asshole that every other guy knows is going to break her heart. We know the rest of the situation and still she chooses him. The only reason for that is because he is able to trigger an emotional response in her and emotions are ALWAYS exciting.

What does it look like when a girl likes you?
What does it look like when a girl likes you?

When a girl likes you, she will touch her lips, collarbone, or neck to draw your attention to these areas. She may even apply lipstick in front of...

Read More »
How do you take care of an empty house?
How do you take care of an empty house?

10 Tips for Protecting a Vacant Home After You Move Lock and secure all windows and doors. ... Give a neighbor or friend an extra key. ... Take...

Read More »

What is the shortest word in the world?

The shortest word is a. Some might wonder about the word I since it consists of one letter, too. In sound, a is shorter because it is a monophthong (consists of one vowel), while I is a diphthong. Both do consist of one letter in the English writing system, and in most fonts I is the narrowest letter.

web.mnstate.edu - Longest_Shortest_Words

The Longest Word The word pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis is often cited as the longest word in the English language. It is the longest word found in a standard dictionary, but the full name for Tryptophan synthetase is longer, but not in a common dictionary. The Shortest Word The shortest word is a. Some might wonder about the word I since it consists of one letter, too. In sound, a is shorter because it is a monophthong (consists of one vowel), while I is a diphthong. Both do consist of one letter in the English writing system, and in most fonts I is the narrowest letter. However, since all languages have spoken forms, but not all have written forms, the writing system is actually a poor measure of word length, and a is best considered the shortest word in English. That is, a word doesn't have to be written in order to exist in a language. It simply has to be a free form.

How do you test if a girl likes you?
How do you test if a girl likes you?

Here is a list of things that a girl does when she likes you back: She laughs at your jokes. She teases you. She suggests plans to hang out with...

Read More »
Who invented kissing on lips?
Who invented kissing on lips?

During the later Classical period, affectionate mouth-to-mouth kissing was first described in the Hindu epic the Mahabharata. Anthropologist Vaughn...

Read More »
Why do girls like older guys?
Why do girls like older guys?

Stereotypes aside, many women cite maturity, wisdom, and financial stability as good reasons to date men who are older. But is there too much of a...

Read More »
What are the signs that you will soon meet your twin flame for the first time?
What are the signs that you will soon meet your twin flame for the first time?

Here's how you know you're meeting your twin flame: 1) Huge Changes Are Happening In Your Life That Don't Make Sense. ... 2) You're Inspired To...

Read More »