Soulmate Gem
Soulmate Gem
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The power of love, on the other hand, is simply the desire to be with the person with whom you are in love because you enjoy their company and all the sizzle that goes with it. You don't want or need to control them, you just enjoy them.
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Read More »It’s hard to know, when you first fall in love with someone, whether they want to be with you all the time because they love your company, or they need to take all of your time. It’s hard to know if they just love you so much they want to be near you, or they can’t stand for you to be around anyone else. But if we pay attention, we can find out. And we don’t have to wait years to know. We can learn, if we pay attention. The problem is that we are usually not paying attention to the things that will tell us the truth. Generally speaking, in the early stages of the love relationship what we are paying the most attention to is the attention we are getting. We eat that stuff up. He looks deeply into your eyes as he tells you he loves you, and just can’t ever be without you again. And all you notice is the heat that comes with the look in his eyes. Barely audible is the little voice within you, saying, “He’s only known you for two weeks and he can’t live without you? What’s wrong with this picture?” What we need to be paying attention to in the early stages of a new and blossoming relationship is what's going on inside of us as we engage with this new person in our lives. When we do so we can gather all the information we need to make a decision about whether or not this person is truly in love with us or just in love with the power she has over us. Love of power is a compulsive need to control a significant other. The compulsion comes from deep-seated self-esteem issues, that won’t let us believe that someone could just love us as-is. No, we have to make them stay, make them be faithful, make them love us, or they just won’t. Love of power makes its owner feel more secure based on all of the controlling and manipulative behaviors he can instigate to make the significant other behave in what he perceives to be a loving way. On some level he knows that his controlling words and behaviors are not attractive and are not winning him the love and attention he wants, but he is compelled by that empty hole in his own self-love to continue to try to control the significant other. The power of love, on the other hand, is simply the desire to be with the person with whom you are in love because you enjoy their company and all the sizzle that goes with it. You don’t want or need to control them, you just enjoy them. They don’t have to constantly reassure you that you are loved, you know it by the way they treat you.
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Read More »When he can’t let go to allow you to spend time with a friend—that’s control, not love. When she gets angry, sulky or tries to manipulate you into staying home when you want the two of you to go out with friends, that’s not love, that’s control. When he checks your phone messages frequently to make sure that you are not cheating or keeping any secrets, that’s not love, that’s control. When he tells you what to wear, how to eat, how he wants your hair, that’s not love, that’s control. More importantly, however, your gut can tell you when it’s control and when it’s love. When you get a fairly consistent gentle inner knowing that he’s trying to control you—pay attention to that. You might even want to experiment with it to see what he’ll do if you don’t “obey” him. Does he get really angry, does he insist that you don’t love him if you don’t do it his way? Or does he allow you some room to be you, separate and distinct from him. Pay attention to what you observe, and how you feel about what you are observing. Then make your decisions accordingly. She may try to convince you that jealousy and control are actually her way of loving, while she’s stepping up the loving words. But, as the old adage goes, actions speak louder than words. If it doesn’t look like the power of love, it’s probably not really love.
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