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What is the look of love in your eyes?

The look of love originates from people observing that when people were attracted to each other, their pupils dilated – giving that wide-eyed look. Our pupils naturally dilate throughout the day to adjust to the level of light and to help us focus.

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We can’t pass up the opportunity for an excellent vision based pun, it being Valentines Day. Especially as we spent yesterday in the shop watching all the gents coming out the barber shop with their fresh trims ready to woo their ladies with a look of love.

Love it is.

Fear not, we’re not about to unleash our inner ABC or Dusty Springfield on you, we thought we’d explain a little bit about where the concept of the ‘look of love’ comes from. The look of love originates from people observing that when people were attracted to each other, their pupils dilated – giving that wide-eyed look. Our pupils naturally dilate throughout the day to adjust to the level of light and to help us focus. You might also have drops put into your eyes to force them to dilate for an eye examination. The process is called mydriasis – top optical fact. The iris muscles are responsible for dilating the pupils are controlled by what’s called the autonomic nervous system – it’s what makes you respond in certain ways to different events. The majority of the work this system does happens without you knowning it and is a major factor in our flight/fight/freeze responses as well as those butterflies in your tummy when you’re physically attracted to someone. Studies have actually shown that even just looking a pictures of someone that at person finds attractive can cause pupils to dilate. In the 16th Century, women used to create drops from Deadly Nightshade (Atropa belladona) and put them in their eyes to dilate their pupils – in the hope of making themselves look more alluring. It’s thought that belladonna part of the botanical name comes from these beautiful Italian women using the drops to make their pupils larger. As with all things though, what you put in your body tends to have consequences. In this case it was increased heart rate, blurred vision, blindness and often death. Awkward. Glasses by Kirk & Kirk available at EYES on St Albans – contact us for an appointment So, the look of love is real. It’s amazing what our bodies can do. If you’re doing the whole Valentine thing, enjoy. If you’re not, enjoy the extreme bonkersness of the ABC video…

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How to kiss a girl without asking?

Keep your eyes focused on her lips for one second, then return your focus to her eyes. Do this several more times throughout the conversation, but don't overdo it. Look only enough to let her know that you're thinking about kissing her. If she does the same thing, you'll know that she's thinking about it too.

This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara . Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth. This article has been viewed 1,278,417 times.

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Will there’s no 100% guarantee that a girl will let you kiss her, there are things you can do to put her at ease and improve your chances. Spend time getting to know her and make sure the time is right. Before you make your move, dress up nicely, brush your teeth, and make sure you look and smell your best. Wait for a moment when you’re both relaxed and comfortable, hopefully in a romantic setting where you can have a little privacy. Look for signs that she might be in the mood to lock lips—for example, you might catch her leaning in close, gazing into your eyes, or glancing at your lips. Say something like, “I’d love to kiss you right now. Is that okay?” If she says yes, lean in slowly and tilt your head to one side so you don’t bump noses, close your eyes, and gently touch your lips to hers.

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