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What is the benefits of having a boy best friend?

They're problem-solvers and protectors. Just like your female friends, guys have your best interest at heart—they just show it in totally different ways. When you come to them fresh from a breakup or in the midst of mid-management drama, they'll all but draw up Excel sheets complete with multiple action plans.

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Until recently, my male friends greatly outnumbered the females I counted as comrades. I've never been a tomboy, but I've always found it easy to be around men because they make it easy to be there. With male friends, there's little judgment, a lot of candor, and a ton of fun. Here's why I think every woman should count at least one guy as a BFF. 1. They don't commiserate with crazy. No, I'm not calling women crazy, but we do have thoughts that straddle the line between totally rational and out of this world, like when I convince myself I've got thunder thighs. Women tend to dive into the dramatic fray, saying, "Thunder thighs are the worst! Mine are getting so big I can barely pull my pants up!" Men, on the other hand, give you a sideways glance and tell you just where you can put that load of crap, while reminding you that if you do, in fact, have thunder thighs, you better stop your whining and hit the gym. I love that kind of honesty. 2. You see into the male mind (and, yes, you realize it's a scary place). While your guy friends are likely on their best behavior when they're with you, you're still viewing them in their natural state—a mental space where they're not trying to win your undying affection and can be free to shoot straight with how they think and feel. Got questions about sports, how often men really watch porn, or the sexiest look for a first date? You'll soon have the unabridged answers. 3. They've got a sixth sense about the guys you date. If only I'd listened to my male friends, I likely could have saved myself from many a heartache. They can tell when a guy just isn't that into you, is only searching for sex, or is making excuses for his odd and unpleasant behavior. My females friends have often zipped their lips and hoped for the best, but my male friends have never been afraid to tell me to head for the hills or hitch my wagon to a really good one. 4. They're problem-solvers and protectors. Just like your female friends, guys have your best interest at heart—they just show it in totally different ways. When you come to them fresh from a breakup or in the midst of mid-management drama, they'll all but draw up Excel sheets complete with multiple action plans. If you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation at a bar, you can count on your male BFF to sidle up to your side and tell the offender to buzz off. As an only child, I've found my male friends are like the big brothers I never had but always wanted.

Do you have any male friends? What do you see as the benefits to those relationships?

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Is my male best friend my soulmate?

14 Signs Your Guy BFF Might Actually be Your Soulmate You can communicate with each other without saying a single word. You know him better than he knows himself. Even simple things are fun when you are together. You both really understand each other. When you talk he listens first and judges never. More items... •

You know how you meet some people and the bond just clicks. You get along effortlessly and you know that you finally have a partner in crime to be crazy with for the rest of your life. He might be your bestie but what if he actually is your soulmate? Here's how you can tell.

1. You can communicate with each other without saying a single word.

2. You know him better than he knows himself.

3. Even simple things are fun when you are together.

4. You both really understand each other.

5. When you talk he listens first and judges never. And you do the same. 6. Even if he is not around you know exactly what he would have done in that situation. 7. Anytime anything good happens, he is the first person you want to tell.

8. You can totally be yourself when you are around him.

9. He has seen you at your awesome best and insane worst and he still loves you just the same.

10. He will always stand up for you.

11. You can completely trust him.

12. Your enemies are his enemies and vice versa.

13. You really cannot image your life without having him around.

14. You can always count on him to be honest.

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