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What is seductive body language?

This is a body language “classic.” A closed-off posture, with arms folded, or turning away from someone, are obvious signs of lack of interest. Open postures, oriented toward the other person, with a slightly forward lean, are body cues that are seductive.

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Many years ago, my colleague, Howard Friedman, and I studied complex emotional communication. One of these was seduction. We asked people to express seduction and videotaped them, but we controlled the verbal channel by having them say standard sentences (“I haven’t seen you for a while”). What did we discover? First, it was very hard for people to successfully convey seduction on cue, but we did come to understand how people typically behaved seductively. Here are six nonverbal means of communicating seduction. Subtle and important, just the right amount of eye contact, maintained a bit too long, and then looking away slowly, can be incredibly seductive. In our study, “seducers” who gazed into the camera were more successful at being seductive than were those who couldn’t. Eye contact is a complex means of nonverbal communication. Learn more about its secret powers here.

2. Facial Expression

People who were good at being seductive in our study expressed positive affect, and much of this was done through facial expressions, particularly the mouth. A sly smile, or a brief licking of the lips, can be quite seductive. However, the key is to be subtle, and not overdo it.

3. Posture

This is a body language “classic.” A closed-off posture, with arms folded, or turning away from someone, are obvious signs of lack of interest. Open postures, oriented toward the other person, with a slightly forward lean, are body cues that are seductive.

4. Olfaction

Although we didn’t study the use of perfume/cologne, pleasant scents can be seductive in that they can set up a conditioned response (“just the smell of her/him turns me on”).

5. Touch

In our study, there was no touch, but we know from other research that touch is very important to conveying sexual interest. A light brushing of the hand, or knees touching while seated, can be very seductive.

6. Tone of Voice

Tone of voice, coupled with facial expressions, seemed to be the “make or break” channels in our study for being successfully seductive. A soft, pleasant tone that conveyed positive emotion was successful. A harsh and negative tone of voice was not rated as seductive. Successful nonverbal communication is not easy. It takes a great deal of practice, and while we spend a lot of time honing our verbal communication skills, we typically spend very little time developing our nonverbal skills. The good news, however, is that with practice and time, people can become more effective nonverbal communicators, and more capable of successfully conveying complex emotions like seduction.

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What do girls mostly love in boys?

Girls like guys that show respect to them, their friends, and other people. Support her dreams and desires. Be willing to help her along the way to achieving her goals. It is important for girls to know that they have someone who is in their corner and will provide encouragement when they want to do something.

This article was co-authored by John Keegan . John Keegan is a dating coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health. This article has been viewed 958,410 times.

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Although every girl wants different things from a romantic partner, you can work to make yourself seem more appealing by looking your best and having a good personality. Keep yourself well-groomed and shower regularly. You can also put on a small amount of cologne so you smell nice when you’re around her. Regular exercise will show a girl that you take care of yourself and it will boost your self-confidence, which a lot of girls find super attractive. In addition to looking good, show her you have a good personality. Try making her laugh to show her you have a sense of humor, be respectful to her and everyone around you, and show genuine interest in what she cares about. To learn how to communicate with a girl to know what she wants in a guy, keep reading!

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