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What girls notice on boys?

Here's a list of things to keep that door open. Physical stature: Yep, you knew this already: size matters. ... Appearances and attractiveness: Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it's going to get women to explore what lies beneath. ... Smile: Once women are done assessing your overall build, women will look at your smile. More items... •

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First impressions may be made in moments, but they predict the course your relationships follow. So if you know what exactly about you draws in the votes, you can perfect it -- and do better with the opposite sex. So what do women notice immediately?According to Dr Gordon Patzer, author of Looks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined, and one of the world’s leading authorities on physical attractiveness, a lot of what women notice in the first few minutes is appearance-based. “A substantial portion of the six features of a man are apparent, in terms of height, weight and overall physical attractiveness,” he says. And when appearances don’t make the cut, the door slams shut on further interactions. Here’s a list of things to keep that door open.Yep, you knew this already: size matters. Height and weight are right on top of the list of things women notice. “Too much or too little of either immediately classifies the man as unattractive to women, and closes the door before less physically obviously features (such as confidence) can be determined,” says Dr Patzer. Take heart though, the acceptable range is influenced by the woman's own height and weight.Yes, beauty is skin deep, but it’s going to get women to explore what lies beneath. Attractiveness does include what you were born with, but your genes alone can't scuttle your chances. What really counts is what you do with your hair, clothes, grooming and basic hygiene. If you can't make the effort, women certainly are not going to work hard to learn more about you!Once women are done assessing your overall build, women will look at your smile. “The ability to smile, particularly within the first few minutes of meeting, sends a welcoming, non-hostile signal to women,” says Dr Patzer. There is one proviso though -- the smile must show off reasonably good-looking teeth. It's never too late to fix an appointment with the dentist!Another reason to show off those pearly whites! Women like men who have the ability to laugh. Even better, make the woman laugh. That instantly nets you bonus points!Women find confident men attractive. According to Dr Sameer Malhotra, head of psychiatry and psychotherapy department at Fortis Hospital in New Delhi, within the first few minutes of meeting, women will not only suss out your level of confidence, they will also interpret the vibes you give out and how you think. “Women notice how clear or decisive you are and whether you approach things positively.” Just remember, cockiness and arrogance are not the same as confidence!Men have successfully given womankind the impression of being strong and silent. So women aren't expecting you to have mad talking skills. All you've got to do hold her attention. “We know (scientifically) that the more or longer that a woman gets to know a man, the more physically attractive he becomes in her mind,” says Dr Patzer. Women are looking for someone to keep up the conversation -- so forget the one-liners, just be yourself!Content courtesy: Men's Life Today, India

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Can your house make you depressed?

You might experience depression or low self-esteem because of housing problems. For example, this may happen if you need to move around a lot, making you feel less secure and affecting your relationships. Your living situation might make you feel lonely.

Housing problems can affect our mental health in many different ways. But there are some common mental health problems that you may experience if you are struggling with your housing: If you live somewhere insecure or overcrowded, you might experience stress or anxiety. You may also feel anxious about the cost of your housing, or because of the people you live with. Some mental health problems can cause feelings of anxiety in situations where you don't feel safe or comfortable, including where you live. Or they might make you feel anxious being around unfamiliar people. This includes social phobia, also known as social anxiety, and agoraphobia. If you live somewhere that is noisy, crowded or uncomfortable, you might experience sleep problems. Feeling stressed or anxious about housing could also affect your sleep. Poor sleep can lead to mental health problems or make existing problems harder to cope with. You might experience depression or low self-esteem because of housing problems. For example, this may happen if you need to move around a lot, making you feel less secure and affecting your relationships. Your living situation might make you feel lonely. This might happen if you live alone. Or it may be that you live with people you don't know that well or don't feel comfortable around. Problems with recreational drugs and alcohol are not mental health problems, but they are often connected. If you struggle with recreational drugs or alcohol, you may also find it difficult to find housing. This could make your mental health problems even harder to cope with. Our pages on types of mental health problems have more information about different mental health problems and experiences, and how to get help.

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