Soulmate Gem
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For starters, oxytocin and dopamine — the “love hormones” — have an effect on pupil size. Your brain gets a boost of these chemicals when you're sexually or romantically attracted to someone. This surge in hormones appears to make your pupils dilate. Dilation may also be related to the biological need to reproduce.
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Read More »Are dilated pupils really a sign of attraction? Yes — but let’s take a sec to discuss it before you start making assumptions about every set of dilated pupils that look your way. Read on to find out why this happens, other signs to watch for, and more. What the research says When you see something you like — be it a gift from a friend or handsome passerby — your sympathetic nervous system kicks in. This is the same system that kicks in during times of alarm, triggering your fight-or-flight response. When your body is under duress, your pupils dilate to improve your direct line of sight and peripheral vision. This allows you to better see what’s exciting you or evaluate a potential threat. Research has also found that people typically find those with larger pupils to be more attractive. For example, researchers in one landmark study presented two pictures of the same woman to male participants and asked them to describe her. They altered the size of her pupils to be slightly larger in one image and slightly smaller in the other — a detail none of the men reported noticing. They described the woman with the larger pupils as “more feminine,” “soft,” and “pretty.” They described the woman with the smaller pupils as “cold,” “selfish,” and “hard.” Several studies since then, using different methods, have yielded the same results. So, is the same for women? Sort of. Except that the findings seem to indicate that women who prefer nice guys are drawn to medium-sized pupils, while those drawn to larger pupils have a penchant for bad boys. A more recent study also found that where a woman is at in her menstrual cycle also plays a role in how her pupils react when it comes to attraction. They found that a woman’s pupils grow largest when looking at someone they find sexually stimulating during the most fertile phase of her cycle. Why does this happen? For starters, oxytocin and dopamine — the “love hormones” — have an effect on pupil size. Your brain gets a boost of these chemicals when you’re sexually or romantically attracted to someone. This surge in hormones appears to make your pupils dilate. Dilation may also be related to the biological need to reproduce. It’s been suggested that a male’s attraction to larger pupils has to do with their biological quest to pass on their genes. A woman with dilated pupils mirrors his attraction, indicating returned interest and perhaps sexual excitement. If a woman’s pupils dilate most during her fertile period, this can set the stage for successful reproduction. What else can cause dilated pupils? Here’s why you shouldn’t go assuming that anyone looking at you with dilated pupils must be in love: Love and lust can both make the pupils dilate. So can other emotions, like fear and anger. Ovulation also affects pupil size. But there are other things that are anything but lovey-dovey that can also cause dilated pupils, including: excessive drug and alcohol use
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