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What are the 7 types of affairs?

Type 1: Accidental Affair. Type 2: Avoidance Affair Type. Type 3:Philanderer Affair. Type 4: Entitlement Affair. Type 5: Split Self Affair (Romantic Affair) Type 6: Exit Affair. Type 7: Sexual Addiction Affair.

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The causes of infidelity are complex and varied. Affairs can occur in happy marriages as well as in troubled ones. Here we look at the various affair types and provide a basic treatment strategy for that affair type.

Type 1: Accidental Affair

AKA: The One Nite Stand Affair

Type 2: Avoidance Affair Type

Intimacy avoidance affair

Conflict avoidance affair

Type 3:Philanderer Affair

Womanizer

Type 4: Entitlement Affair

Royal Affair

Type 5: Split Self Affair (Romantic Affair)

Romantic Affair

Mid-Life Crisis

Coming Out Affair

Type 6: Exit Affair

AKA: Out The Door Affair

Determining your affair type

Take the Affair Type Quiz. This quiz will help you do a quick analysis on the type of affair. I would encourage you to read the descriptions of each affair type and then determine which one best characterizes your experience. You may notice, your affair condition fitting into several categories and this is entirely possible. Affair relationships, like any other relationship, do not follow a consistent pattern. For example, what may start out as a “one night stand” has developed into an avoidance affair. As you are here to find answers to why you were unfaithful, or to why your spouse was unfaithful, I ask you to take a deep breath before you begin. Try and let go of your need to fit into a category perfectly. The Infidelity Recovery Institute has a treatment plan for each of the 7 affair types. However, you will notice that the treatment plan will not be available for public viewing as the content is sensitive (especially to an individual who has been betrayed). Trained and certified IRI professionals are able to provide you with the support and guidance to help you process these deep emotional wounds. When choosing a professional to assist you with affair recovery, remember that affairs have psychological deep-seeded roots. Check your professional has a foundation in psychology, with years of experience in couples therapy, and has a method/process they current use with clients in affair recovery.

Emotional affairs

Emotional affairs, which do not include sexual contact, are also affairs. Although the dynamics are similar, the lack of an overtly sexual component means that the volatility and sense of betrayal is substantially less. For example, I have found men to be more forgiving if the wife had an emotional affair, over a sexual affair. The sad reality is, that it is more difficult for a women to end an emotional affair over a sexual liaison. Emotional affairs are sexual affairs in the making. I choose to treat and classify emotional affairs, with the affair message they are sending. The most threatening aspect is not the affair it’s self, but the dishonesty that it casts out over the entire relationship.

Financial Infidelity

Though it is not quite as serious as being with another person, financial infidelity can cause similar issues in regards to trust. Not only do you have to work through this aspect of the relationship, you usually have to work to get out of a financial mess that happened as a result of the financial infidelity.

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Yes, exactly. And it can become toxic on a couple of levels—the first being the impossible expectations Dr. Solomon warned us about above. The second is that if one believes they've found their twin flame, they won't leave if the relationship becomes problematic or even abusive.

Giselle Wasfie, acupuncturist, herbalist, Reiki energy healer and founder of holistic wellness practice REMIX, describes twin flames most succinctly: “The meaning of a twin flame is based upon the idea that an elevated soul spilt in two, and the twin flame is your soul’s other half, like your ‘mirror soul.’” But the idea of twin flames can actually go a lot deeper depending on your worldview. For example, different cultures and religions have foundational beliefs in the idea. In the Tantric Union, Shiva and Shakti represent the union of feminine and masculine energy—they are part of the same whole. In Greek mythology, the story goes that as punishment for human ego, Zeus split up the androgynous human being in two. The result? These divided humans would forever seek their other half in order to feel whole.

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