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What are the 3 reasons someone comes into your life?

Kate she said to me, “ People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person….”.

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The Three Reasons People Come Into Our Lives

I’ve been thinking a lot about friendship/relationships over the last few weeks. I recently had my flat broken into while I was in bed asleep which is pretty damn scary. It certainly has left me shaken up but equally it’s shown me how many of my friends have really SHOWN UP BIG TIME. I’m not naming any names as you know exactly who you are and know what a special role you play in my life. Friendships and relationships, even workplace colleagues nearly always come to an end — as in the natural circle of life. For a large part, the nature of life is constant change. And change can be a real bitch to say the very least. It can be totally devastating. You can stake all of your certainty, comfort and security on this one thing that you know for certain — then poof overnight something happens (e.g redundancy, divorce, death, car accident) and that comfort is changed forever. Comfort is all about framing. Putting something through a different lens to view in a different way. For example, that terrible job wasn’t actually that horrible, it taught me patience and helped me hone in on my passion. It taught me resilience and the importance of showing up. For me, when relationships dissolves, it isn’t always a devastating loss, they can be an amazing experience for which I was so fortunate to have in the first place. This quote was once shared with me by a wise old lady, my dear old Nana Joan. Kate she said to me, “People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person….”. To this very day, I can put friends, acquaintances, travel buddies, ex-boyfriends, business partners, clients, colleagues into one of these three categories. “When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty; to provide you with guidance and support; to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be there. “Then, without any wrongdoing on your part…the relationship will end.” “When some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of job. Believe it. It is real.” But this is only for a short period of time. “LIFETIME relationships teaches you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life”. — source is unknown. Do you think you can classify people into these three categories? Go ahead and give it a go with a handful of people you know. Do these three categories ring true to you ? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Kate Windebank: Career & Business Coach | Personal Brand Consultant | Tech Lover| Interests in Entreperneurship & the Future of Work. Let’s connect at Kate Windebank

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Is there one person you are meant to be with?

Anyone Can Be “The One,” So Experts Say Stop Stressing. The idea that there is one single person on Earth who's considered your soulmate is like asking all of mankind to look for a needle in a haystack. It's so much pressure to put on the heart, and that can make both dating and enjoying singledom way more strenuous.

If you really want to find “the one,” Della Casa says it's best to start looking a lot closer to home. By that, she means start with focusing on yourself. “The best way to find one of the people for you is to take time to really get to know who you are, what your values are and what you’re looking for," she suggests. "The better understanding you have of yourself, the easier it will be to identify a good match and walk away from a not-so-good-one.” “You are the soulmate you've been looking for and pining for,” agrees Dorell. “When you truly learn to love your own company, and feel comfortable in your own skin, the right people just come into your world. They are drawn to you. There's no chasing or beating yourself up because you haven't found the elusive ‘one’ because you've already chosen yourself, and whoever else gets added to your world is a bonus, not an obligation,” she says. Ultimately, the key here is to focus less on finding the mythical “one” and instead look for someone with whom you're compatible and who treats you well. That is the way to find your true "soulmate," Della Casa says. “If you find someone who loves, respects, values, and supports you, someone you are attracted to and grows with you, be grateful for them and show them by giving them the same love, respect and support in return. That’s how you build a one-of-a-kind relationship,” she concludes. In other words, the one who got away wasn’t “the one." The person who sticks around and truly makes you happy is “the one” who counts.

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