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What are angel cards?

Angel cards connect us to the energies of angelic beings that really just want to cuddle humanity into contentment. Decks vary in terms of words and imagery but readings have more to do with the interaction of energies (think 'vibes') than the overt symbolism of something like Tarot.

Do you feel a spark when you meet your soulmate?
Do you feel a spark when you meet your soulmate?

'Sparks' are the sign that you have found your soulmate. You may feel an immediate, deep, unique, and undeniable connection to that person. What...

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Should I kiss with tongue?
Should I kiss with tongue?

Kissing with tongue (also known as French kissing) can be really pleasurable for some people, but you should make sure to introduce your tongue...

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Whether through memes or existential curiosity, mystic pursuits have never been so mainstream. We harass our parents for our precise birth time (because knowing your rising sign is the pinnacle of self-awareness), ‘manifest’ our desires through either meditation or visualisation (which - to some of us - resembles staring at the ceiling and Pinterest) and agonise over whether or not to visit a Psychic in case they reveal that something remotely negative might happen to us at some point in the future. But as our spiritual arsenal increases, so does our ability for personal discernment: Does astrology make too many assumptions? Where’s the sense in manifestation when you don’t actually know what you want? Is there even a point in having an insight into your future? Are you still with us? Whatever your opinion on such things, mystic pursuits are empowering because knowledge is always power. Even if that knowledge looks like placing black obsidian under your pillow to release yourself from resentment or scanning the natal chart of someone you fancy as an essential risk assessment. Empowerment is a battle though and battles can be exhausting - wounding even. Sometimes, we just want to be cared for (especially in the midst of an ongoing global pandemic). Angel cards connect us to the energies of angelic beings that really just want to cuddle humanity into contentment. Decks vary in terms of words and imagery but readings have more to do with the interaction of energies (think ‘vibes’) than the overt symbolism of something like Tarot. But what can angel readings actually help with? Well, cynics, there are in fact six things: reflection (awareness of our divine selves), partnership (spiritual growth in relationships) , integration (harmony between mind, body and soul), alignment (the search for meaningful work), rejuvenation (acceptance and celebration of life’s natural cycles) and nourishment (eating food and thinking thoughts that fulfil you). Ultimately, their purpose is encouragement of the querent.

What makes a man love a woman forever?
What makes a man love a woman forever?

Sharing Core Values. Intelligence, sense of humor, compassion, kindness, and loyalty are few universally appealing qualities. Men feel deeply...

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Where do you touch a guy for the first time kissing?
Where do you touch a guy for the first time kissing?

Hold his hand or put your arms over his shoulders. Start moving your body so that he's much closer to you; it'll be awkward if you have to move a...

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What are the 3 C's of good relationships?

A strong and healthy relationship is built on the three C's: Communication, Compromise and Commitment. Think about how to use communication to make your partner feel needed, desired and appreciated.

February may be the month of love, but it takes more than chocolates, flowers and dinner dates to make a relationship work. A strong and healthy relationship is built on the three C’s: Communication, Compromise and Commitment. Whether starting a new relationship or celebrating decades of marriage, here is a refresher course in the three C’s:

Communication

Think about how to use communication to make your partner feel needed, desired and appreciated. Communication is verbal and non-verbal, so actions speak volumes, and remember that listening is a major component of healthy communication. It’s not always what is said, but how it is said, that’s important. If a couple communicates with aggression, the silent treatment or abusive language or actions, it signals concerns that might best be addressed by a professional.

Compromise

Two people in a relationship bring individual experiences, thoughts, behaviors and personalities to the table. Finding common ground means expressing opinions, understanding and accepting differences and agreeing on compromise. If both people feel heard and understood, it helps prevent one person from feeling like they’re giving in, which can build resentment over time.

Commitment

Commitment means putting each other and the relationship first. This requires a lot of giving, and certainly some sacrifice, but the payoff is a relationship that brings true joy and fulfillment to each other’s lives. Knowing that each person is committed to working through challenges and growing together builds trust and intimacy, and helps release the fears and doubts that hold couples back. Relationships can be challenging, and can take a toll on mental, emotional and physical health, mood, or even focus at work. For help with any relationship or personal concern, contact your Employee Assistance Program (EAP) provided by ACI Specialty Benefits at 800.932.0034 or eapinfo@acispecialtybenefits.com.

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What signs do not get along together?
What signs do not get along together?

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Do first loves ever get back together?
Do first loves ever get back together?

According to a study by a Cal State University professor, former sweethearts who meet up later in life, and are single, have a better than 70...

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Is marrying your first love rare?

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How do you make any woman sleep with you?

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