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Is love a permanent feeling?

Love is not constant. It waxes and wanes like the moon. Having an argument or feeling bugged by your partner's demands or desires doesn't mean that your relationship needs to be put in the recycle bin.

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Love is not constant. It waxes and wanes like the moon. Having an argument or feeling bugged by your partner’s demands or desires doesn’t mean that your relationship needs to be put in the recycle bin. It means that you have to understand and talk about the natural course of feelings that ebb and flow throughout emotional connections. Some people have trouble knowing whether they are feeling love or not. This is much different from the heady “in love” emotions that I think are temporary insanity. It is more a sense of knowing that you are with someone who’s got your back and won’t turn his or hers on you. When you are with someone who embodies the qualities and values that you admire, and you think that maybe you could love this person but can’t seem to bring yourself to say the words or really allow yourself to feel it, there could be deeper issues going on. The fear of rejection, the memories of a previous abusive relationship, or even a need for independence can make you want to keep a fire escape in your heart. Problem is that by having an exit plan, you never really get to experience the fulfillment of taking the risk of letting someone in. Truth is that once you do, your life is changed forever. That person is now imprinted on your psyche, and the picture in your mind won’t go away until you can fill the void with something better. We’ve all had love and lost it or suffered from a broken heart. And that’s why some of us recoil at the thought of entering into a loving relationship. You’ve been told that it isn’t wise to put all your eggs in one basket. But if you try to play Easter Bunny and hide a few for later, you’re not going to get the true benefits of what love really is. So let yourself love and be loved. The trick is to be very careful with the basket. Don’t hedge your feelings when it comes to love, because you won’t get out of it what you want. Some people hold back because they don’t think they can return the love or that they won’t know how to help love thrive. There is no one answer. You have to keep trying different things, get into deep conversations (and learn to like them), and commit to yourself and your partner that you will love him or her unconditionally. I also suggest recommitting on a daily basis in your own head and heart and sharing those feelings with your partner. The couples I know who do this have stronger connections. Holding back is a means of self-protection, and sometimes that’s understandable. I know it’s scary to love like you’re not going to get hurt, but it’s the only way to get the goodies from the most wonderful of emotions.

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How do you trick a boy to kiss you?

Flirt with your eyes. It shows that you're confident, but also that you can play coy. One way to clue him in on the fact that you want a kiss is to look him deep in the eyes, slowly drop your gaze to his lips, and then move them back up to his eyes. If the guy catches on, this is his cue to kiss you.

This article was co-authored by Laura Bilotta . Laura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 18 years of date coaching experience, Laura specializes in dating etiquette, relationships, and human behavior. She is the host of the Dating and Relationship Radio Talk Show on AM640 and on Apple Podcasts. She is also the author of "Single in the City: From Hookups & Heartbreaks To Love & Lifemates, Tales & Tips To Attract Your Perfect Match." This article has been viewed 826,942 times.

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If you want to get a guy to kiss you, freshen your breath first. Brush your teeth and swish some mouthwash or use a breath mint. Put on some lip balm or gloss to make your lips soft and kissable. Pick a time and place where you and your guy friend can be alone together for a while. Once you’re together, be confident and friendly with him. Chat for a while and wait for a moment when you’re both feeling happy and relaxed. Then, move closer to him and see what he does. If he moves away, he’s probably not ready. On the other hand, if he leans in, he might be interested in a kiss. Touch his hand or arm, make eye contact, and move your face close to his. He might take the hint and kiss you right then. If he doesn’t, try saying something like, “You know what? I’d love it if you kissed me right now.” To learn how to get a guy to kiss you by flirting with your eyes, keep reading!

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