Soulmate Gem
Soulmate Gem
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“I'll always be here for you.” “I love our life together.” “I love planning our future together—there's so much to look forward to.” “You're the most important person in my life.”
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Read More »Saying “I love you” is easily one of the biggest milestones in any type of relationship . That one phrase can turn a casual fling into something much more serious, and all it takes is a few seconds. But since those few seconds mean a whole lot, figuring out how to tell someone you love them can be nerve-wracking. In theory, you just say it. But in reality, it feels—and likely is—much more complicated than that. Get Access to *All* of Cosmo Get Access to *All* of Cosmo $20 at Shop Cosmopolitan That’s because, hi, saying “I love you” to someone new is a big deal. Sure, deciding to propose , getting married , and having babies are also major relationship moments, but most of those steps start with one person telling the other that they’re in lurve. And while romantic comedies might make it seem like the first "I love you" is always a spur-of-the-moment thing, that’s not always the case (which is a good thing). Timing-wise, couples therapist Adrienne Michelle, LMFT , most often sees people say “I love you” somewhere around the three-month dating mark. That said, there’s really no set schedule here. Marriage and family therapist Kiaundra Jackson, LMFT , adds that while you shouldn’t place a time frame on yourself or your partner to speak those famous "three words, eight letters," it’s a good idea to at least wait until you’re out of the honeymoon phase. “Everything is fresh and new and your body is flooded with dopamine and oxytocin when in the honeymoon phase ,” Jackson explains. “Sometimes we can misconstrue those hormones as love or as a sign that you want to be with the person forever.” When the initial excitement of a new relationship eases and you begin to see the other person for who they truly are (both the good and the bad!), both experts agree that’s when love—not lust or infatuation—sets in. If the whole concept of figuring out how to say “I love you” has you breaking out in a cold sweat, don’t stress! Below, relationship experts outline the best ways to tell someone you love ‘em, plus how to really know if you’re ready to confess your feels to that potential soul mate of yours.
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Read More »If you’re still unsure, Michelle suggests asking yourself questions like: “Do I love the person they are? Do I love who I am around them? Do I love how we treat one another? Do I love our sex?” This can help give you an idea as to whether it’s a passing crush or full-blown love. Truthfully, though, both experts agree the sheer fact you’re asking yourself if you love someone is a clear sign that you might—or you’re at least well on your way. And if that’s the case, it might be time to tell that special someone how you feel. Before blurting it out, though, Michelle says it’s a good idea to think about your goal in sharing. If you’re saying it because you feel obligated to or have an ulterior motive, it’s probably best to hold back. If, however, you want to tell someone you love them because your feelings are strong and you just can’t hold it in anymore, that’s a damn good indication you’re ready. Which means you need to figure out the best way to tell them! (No pressure. This is exciting!) You want to say it when you’re in a place where you can handle many different outcomes, from them saying it back to them being sorta stunned. Michelle says it’s also a good idea to consider the headspace your partner is in. “If they have a lot on their plate or are overwhelmed with something else, I wouldn't add that to their reality just yet,” she advises. If you’re stuck on the exact moment or location, you’ll want to think about what feels natural for your relationship. Does your partner like grand romantic gestures or do they prefer more vulnerable and intimate moments? Let this guide your when/how so you both feel like the milestone is true to your bond.
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