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How do you know if someone fancies you?

10 signs that they're definitely into you Body language. You can tell a lot about whether someone likes you through body language. ... Shy looks. These are quite easy to look out for. ... Eye contact. This can be a confusing one. ... Touchy subject. ... Taking the initiative. ... Two way traffic. ... Serendipity. ... Just like you. More items... •

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Are they? Aren't they? Are you reading into that or is it… meant to be? We get it. Trying to tell if someone has feelings for you can be totally agonising. That's why we've brought in the experts from Seventy Thirty to bring you a no BS list of how to find out...

Body language

You can tell a lot about whether someone likes you through body language. Mirroring is a common trait; if they mimic your body language, it means they're trying to connect with you. Other signs are leaning in when talking to you and pointing their feet towards you.

Shy looks

These are quite easy to look out for. There is the 'sweeping look'. If they glance at you, glance away, look back at you again, look away when you notice them... that can be an obvious sign. This can sometimes be coupled with an uncomfortable body stance and that they might be shooting you looks rather than talking.

Eye contact

This can be a confusing one. Some people consciously maintain eye contact in an almost deliberate attempt to confirm their interest. Some people find it hard to maintain eye contact with someone they really like. Extremes in either are a good sign to look for.

Touchy subject

If they find an excuse to touch you in conversation, this can be a very real sign that they like you.

Taking the initiative

If they initiate a conversation, it might not be that they are just looking for someone to talk to and you can sometimes tell by the topic of conversation whether they're making an excuse to single you out. It will often be things they wouldn't necessarily need to ask you, restaurant recommendations or what you like doing at the weekend. They may also ask what your partner is up to to find out whether you have one.

Two way traffic

Often, if a person is not interested, they will broadcast and talk about themselves rather than asking you questions and responding to your responses. If they are, they might instead ask seemingly irrelevant questions to keep the conversation going in order not to lose your focus.

Serendipity

Sometimes a happy coincidence might be more serendipity. If an interest suddenly appears in a place you have mentioned, whether they arrive at the tube station at the same time or make a surprise appearance in a favourite coffee shop you've advised them on, they could be trying to connect with you … while attempting not to look like a stalker!

Just like you

If, in conversation they agree with you or like the same things you do, then this could be a tactic to appeal to you. Alongside, laughing at your jokes, whether they're brilliantly witty or not.

Projecting fun

If someone smiles a lot when they look at you and connects eye contact with smiling, it is usually because they find you attractive. They might also make fun of you and tease you, or try to make you laugh.

Fidgeting as flirting

If someone's into you, you make them nervous. Their heart will beat rapidly from being around you. Other signs include unexplained laughter, sweaty palms and fidgeting. People like to be in control of their emotions. If they have trouble doing that around you, it's most likely because you make them nervous and excited. Seventy Thirty is a matchmaking company that matches net-worth individuals from a variety of unique backgrounds, nationalities, lifestyles, industries, all with different relationship aspirations, and of course of all ages.

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