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How to Stop Mutual Attraction at the Workplace Acknowledge the Attraction. While it's natural to be reluctant to speak to a co-worker about a mutual attraction that you perceive as existing -- after all, what if you are wrong -- doing so is the necessary first step. ... Discuss Your Concerns. ... Create a Plan. ... Consider a Move.
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Read More »Exchanging steamy glances with a co-worker towards whom you feel an attraction can make the workday fly by faster. A little office attraction may not seem a problem -- and perhaps it isn’t, particularly if you are both single and your workplace doesn’t prohibit fraternization. Verboten or not, however, giving in to workplace attraction will complicate your time on the job. If you decide that the risk isn’t worth the reward -- or if you are already spoken for -- work to end the storm of sparks that light up between you and this co-worker to make staying focused on the job at hand easier. Acknowledge the Attraction While it’s natural to be reluctant to speak to a co-worker about a mutual attraction that you perceive as existing -- after all, what if you are wrong -- doing so is the necessary first step. Speak to your co-worker in a neutral environment, such as a local coffee shop, to ensure that this conversation doesn’t fall on the ears of eavesdropping co-workers. Admit that you feel an attraction and ask him if he feels the same. If you both agree that a mutual attraction exists, proceed with the discussion. Discuss Your Concerns Even if you are both single and your workplace has no anti-fraternization policy to prohibit a relationship, there are many reasons why you should squelch this mutual attraction instead of feeding it and allowing it to grow into a full-fledged romance. Explain clearly what worries you about the prospect, telling him, for example, that you value your job and worry about what would happen if the romance soured or that you aren’t willing to face the potential legal ramifications that could result should someone claim sexual harassment. Create a Plan If you don’t change your behaviors, your mutual attraction will simply continue to grow. Tell your co-worker that you no longer want to work on teams with him -- if at all possible -- to limit your exposure to him and his charms. Clearly outline what you plan to do and what you would like him to do. Work together to develop a mutually agreed upon plan to guide your next steps.
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Read More »Physical touch Physical touch is one of the five love languages, and it refers to expressing and receiving affection through touch, physical closeness, and other forms of physical connection. Kissing, hugging, holding hands, and sex are all ways of showing love through the physical touch love language.
Physical touch is one of the five love languages, and it refers to expressing and receiving affection through touch, physical closeness, and other forms of physical connection. Kissing, hugging, holding hands, and sex are all ways of showing love through the physical touch love language. Most specifically, having touch as a love language means that small physical gestures—such as having a partner put their arm around you in public or snuggle up close to you on the couch while watching TV together—matter a lot more to you than things like gifts or saying "I love you." There's a physiological reason physical touch is so enjoyable: That skin-to-skin contact triggers the release of certain hormones associated with pleasure and bonding, explains licensed marriage and family therapist Kiaundra Jackson, LMFT, of KW Couples Therapy. "If someone's love language is physical touch, they may or may not know it, but they enjoy the release of the 'feel-good hormones' our body secretes like serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin," Jackson tells mbg. "Oxytocin is known as the bonding hormone. That hormone is the same hormone released between a newborn baby and its mother, which is why skin-to-skin contact is highly recommended for bonding after childbirth."
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