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Do men feel intimacy?

Men may also experience difficulties achieving intimacy because of a lack of 'emotional vocabulary'. Men often feel less able to express the way they are feeling than women, and may feel uncomfortable with discussions about emotions. However, it is important to remember it is a skill, and as such can be learned.

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Some men struggle with intimacy. Here MensLine Australia explores the notion that men have been socialised to appear to be strong and in control while intimacy encourages and enables vulnerability when connecting with another person. Some men struggle with intimacy, as many men have been socialised to appear to be strong and in control. While intimacy encourages and enables vulnerability as you connect with another person. This perceived need for men to hide any weakness can interfere with their ability to experience a real closeness, since real intimacy always involves some degree of vulnerability.

What is intimacy?

The experience of emotional closeness. It occurs when two people are able to be emotionally open with one another, and reveal their true feelings, thoughts, fears and desires. This can only occur when both people are able to genuinely trust one another, and feel able to take the risk of being vulnerable. It is a universal human need; without it we have the experience of loneliness. A perceived lack of intimacy is one of the most common reasons for relationship breakdowns.

Difficulties for men

Men may abandon relationships and intimacy because they fear that they will lose their sense of independence. True emotional closeness is about balancing the sense of yourself while still being connected with another. Men often confuse sex and intimacy. These are not the same thing. Sex without it can be very unrewarding, just as sex with it can be deeply passionate and fulfilling. It is also possible to experience intimacy without sex. Some men confuse intimacy with the ‘honeymoon’ stage of a sexual relationship. It is a hormonally driven, heightened sense of being in ‘love’, often with a corresponding high sexual desire. This stage lasts for the first 6-36 months of a relationship and when/if it ends a relationship may seem to lose some of its initial intensity. This does not mean that intimacy needs to be lost entirely. What it does signal is the beginning of a new phase of the relationship, in which both partners need to invest effort to maintain the emotional closeness that seemed to come so effortlessly early on. Men may also experience difficulties achieving intimacy because of a lack of ‘emotional vocabulary’. Men often feel less able to express the way they are feeling than women, and may feel uncomfortable with discussions about emotions. However, it is important to remember it is a skill, and as such can be learned.

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How can I seek spiritual gifts? Ask. Pray and ask God what spiritual gifts He has blessed you with or which ones you should strive for. He will help you. ... Study. Spiritual gifts require effort to receive them. ... Act. Learning about spiritual gifts is helpful, but you need to put that knowledge to use.

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“How can I seek spiritual gifts?” Ensign, December 2020

Spiritual gifts are given by God through the Holy Ghost for our benefit (see Moroni 10:8). Each of us has been blessed with spiritual gifts from God, and there are many gifts we can receive. Some spiritual gifts are identified in the scriptures (see Moroni 10:9–16; Doctrine and Covenants 46:13–25); many are not. How can you identify and develop the spiritual gifts God has given you? How can you develop other gifts? Here are a few ideas to help you: Ask Pray and ask God what spiritual gifts He has blessed you with or which ones you should strive for. He will help you. Your patriarchal blessing might also reveal your spiritual gifts. If you have not received your patriarchal blessing, consider visiting with your bishop or branch president about receiving one. Study Spiritual gifts require effort to receive them. While striving for a specific gift, consider learning more about it from the scriptures, your patriarchal blessing, or general conference talks. You can also ask others about their experiences.

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