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Nesting is a natural instinct experienced by many expecting mothers, most commonly in the last trimester. While it can cover a wide range of activities and behaviors, the central driver is taking control of your environment to create a safe, calming, and welcoming space for baby and motherhood.
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Read More »Share on Pinterest If you wake up with an out-of-the-blue desire to scrub your floors, tidy up your baby’s dresser full of onesies, and repack your hospital bag for the — ahem — eighth time, the sweet maternal phenomenon known as “nesting” might be upon you. This natural instinct is known as an intense drive to nurture and prepare your baby’s environment. This can be channeled into: cleaning
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Read More »What about those nesting myths? Nesting is incredibly common, but there’s no proven reason as to why or when it happens during pregnancy. You may have heard the rumor that getting a nesting feeling prior to a positive pregnancy test could be a “sign” you’re pregnant. Or maybe you’ve been told that if it happens during the last trimester, labor is imminent. But despite the correlation with hormonal spikes, there’s little research to support any one theory. Tips to nest productively Satisfying your nesting instinct without going overboard is important for avoiding physical or emotional stress or injury. If you find yourself obsessively cleaning the same thing five times or staying up until the wee hours of the night to decorate the nursery, it might be time to assess your well-being and consider these tips to nest without feeling overwhelmed. Set limits for nesting activities Activities such as rearranging furniture or mopping the floors can be physically taxing on your body while pregnant. Set a timer that will alert you to take a break to stretch, get some fresh air, or put up your feet. Also, avoid lifting anything too heavy, as doing so can lead to strain or injury. And remember that if you’re cleaning with chemicals or solutions, a good safety practice is to use gloves and stay in a well-ventilated area. Be mindful of your feelings Sometimes, nesting can be a fruitful coping mechanism to deal with stress or anxiety. Pregnancy can spur a lot of these feelings related to the upcoming delivery and transition to motherhood. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, nesting within reason can be a good outlet, but also consider talking to your OB-GYN, midwife, or someone else that you trust. Make a nesting plan Instead of facing a daunting list of nesting chores, approach it with a plan that prioritizes tasks within a realistic timeframe. That way, you won’t feel so rushed to do everything all at once. This will also help empower you to prepare your environment in a positive way. Focus on your needs It’s easy for nesting to be all about baby, but remember that you need some self-love as well. Take time to nurture yourself as you prepare for childbirth and your new mommy status. Maybe it’s a prenatal massage, pedicure, night away with a friend, buying a few new outfits for postpartum comfort, or dentist appointment that you’ve been putting off — whatever it is, make nesting about you, too. Trust your instincts With pregnancy comes a lot of advice from family, friends, and even complete strangers. Some of it may be welcome, and some of it can seem intrusive or confusing. If others are pressuring you to “nest” or do pre-baby activities that don’t align with your timeline and values, it’s OK to say thanks, but no thanks. Talk to your OB-GYN or midwife for sound medical advice, and know that you are the ultimate expert about what feels right for you and your baby.
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