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Do guys like it when you tease them?

"In fact," my biggest fan continued, "I think you've got a post idea there: Why men like women who tease them." So I probed, and it turns out the attraction is threefold. "Eighty-eight percent of the guys said that it melted their hearts when their wife expressed that he made her happy," says Feldhahn.

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The night I met my now boyfriend—to steal his terminology—I "busted his balls" within seconds, poking fun at his underwhelming opening line and pointing out the more obvious, surefire options he'd had in front of him. And on a recent evening, sitting across a candlelit table during a date he'd planned, we reminisced over what had caught each other's eyes that very night. "I loved that you gave me a hard time," he admitted. The fact that I wasn't focused on playing nice in order to nab his number made me more attractive, he revealed. "In fact," my biggest fan continued, "I think you've got a post idea there: Why men like women who tease them." So I probed, and it turns out the attraction is threefold. "Eighty-eight percent of the guys said that it melted their hearts when their wife expressed that he made her happy," says Feldhahn. How to do it: "A big smile when he walks in the door, a spontaneous hug when he says something sweet, or even saying 'You make me happy' tells him he's doing well at this relationship thing—and makes him want to do even better." Getty Images First, men bond with each other in this way, showing their bro-like love by ribbing on the other's fantasy football selections or faltering fashion sense. "When a woman rips on me in a playful way," another male friend told me, "it's like she's telling me she likes me by speaking my own language." Second, teasing shows off a personality trait men go gaga over: having a sense of humor. While your conversational repertoire may not include knock-knock jokes, any woman can still make a man laugh by giving him a hard time. Example: This weekend, as my boyfriend sucked on a Zicam, I couldn't help but gently mock how he sounded as he muttered with the dissolving tablet on his tongue—and he laughed so hard I worried he might choke on it. Third, my boyfriend says, teasing shows a sense confidence: Being sweet has its place, of course, but teasing tells a man you can play witty banter ball without worrying what he'll think of you. This insight comes with a caveat though: You can take teasing too far. "It isn't about being mean or hurtful," my boyfriend says, "because no one is going to like that." Or, as my friend explains, "At the end of the day, I need to still know you like me—not be questioning why you would after what you said." But by steering clear of sensitive subjects, you can surprise, delight, and make your dude laugh by going back to elementary school and giving him a hard time.

Do you ever tease your guy? Does he seem to enjoy it, or does it get under his skin?

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What makes a man happy from a woman?

To make your man happy emotionally, you have to be attentive to his needs and to know when to give him space. To make your man happy sexually, you have to want to try new things and to be bold and adventurous. But the most important part is that you are feeling happy while you're pleasing your man.

This article was co-authored by Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT . Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post. This article has been viewed 945,973 times.

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To make your man happy emotionally and sexually in your relationship, remember to be attentive to his needs and ready to try new things. For example, learn your man’s moods so that when he’s brooding you know to leave him alone, but when he’s upset and wants to be comforted you’re there for him. In addition to knowing your man’s emotional needs, encourage him by giving him sincere compliments, like "I know you'll ace your test" or "You'll do great at your interview." When it comes to his sexual satisfaction, learn what kinds of touches turn him on, like a kiss on the neck, a nibble on his ear, or a hand on the small of his back. Another way to make your man happy is to be more adventurous, such as trying new positions or making out in new places, like the movie theater or car. To learn how to give your man enough space to keep him happy, keep reading!

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