Soulmate Gem
Photo by MART  PRODUCTION Pexels Logo Photo: MART PRODUCTION

Can you see your loved one before cremation?

The common misconception about cremation is that it is not possible to have a visitation, wake or more formal services. Visitations are not only allowed before a cremation; they are a popular and appropriate choice for many families.

How do you wait on God for a mate?
How do you wait on God for a mate?

Part of how to wait on God for a husband should involve these 10 steps. Work on your relationship with God. ... Work on your relationship with...

Read More »
Does everyone have BFF?
Does everyone have BFF?

Not everyone has a best friend in life, and that's okay. Some people have several close friends that give them love and support, but none of which...

Read More »

By: Dan Ciha

The common misconception about cremation is that it is not possible to have a visitation, wake or more formal services. Visitations are not only allowed before a cremation; they are a popular and appropriate choice for many families.

What is a Wake or Visitation?

Many people believe they cannot have a wake or visitation if their loved one is being cremated. The reason for this is that a wake or visitation involves spending time with the body prior to the funeral service. A wake typically occurs in the presence of the casket, with the embalmed remains of their loved ones on the inside. Visitations are sometimes a little bit different, in that they do not require the deceased to be present. These gatherings often take place the day before or even the day of the funeral or memorial services.

The Most Common Misconception

The most common mistake that people make in regards to cremation and visitations is thinking someone planning for cremation cannot be embalmed. This is simply not true. Many people choose to be embalmed prior to cremation in order to allow for a viewing, wake, or funeral service. Some people also choose to have a visitation with the urn and ashes present instead of an open or closed casket. When it comes to funeral customs and traditions, almost everything can be personalized to meet the last wishes of the deceased and their family.

What about the Casket?

When it comes to the casket used in a wake or visitation, there are several options available. Most common is the use of a ceremonial “rental” casket. This casket is made of a hardwood shell, and the interior is actually a cremation container, but to everyone else, appears as a typical, hardwood casket. The interior is cremated with the deceased after visitation or services and only the hardwood shell is re-used. This is a more environmentally friendly and more economical option than the use of a cremation casket.

What happened after the visitation or services?

Following the visitation or funeral services, depending on family preferences, cremation will take place at our crematory. Those cremated remains can then be returned to family members, buried at a cemetery, or placed in a columbarium. These final services can be done simply by a funeral director and cemetery staff, privately with family members, or publicly where everyone would be invited to the cemetery. If inurnment or committal services are taking place in a cemetery setting, this is often the time where military rites would be rendered to our nation’s veterans. If you have any questions about this or would like to ask a question that hasn't been discussed, please feel free to contact us.

How do I know he is my life partner?
How do I know he is my life partner?

If you accept each other no matter what, you easily forgive, love each other's flaws or imperfections, and can even bridge your differences,...

Read More »
What is the highest paid side hustle?
What is the highest paid side hustle?

Here is a list of 17 top-paying side hustle ideas that are categorized based on their hourly wage and earning potential: Online Tutoring. ......

Read More »

Why are graves 6 feet deep?

Six feet also helped keep bodies out of the hands of body snatchers. Medical schools in the early 1800s bought cadavers for anatomical study and dissection, and some people supplied the demand by digging up fresh corpses. Gravesites reaching six feet helped prevent farmers from accidentally plowing up bodies.

There are plenty of reasons why a body is buried six feet under The six feet under rule for burial may have come from a plague in London in 1665. The Lord Mayor of London ordered all the “graves shall be at least six-foot deep.” The order never said why six feet. Maybe deep enough to keep animals from digging up corpses. Soil is different around the world and six feet is probably as far as you can dig down before the sides start caving in. Another explanation suggests six feet was the maximum depth a gravedigger could stand and still manage to toss dirt out of the grave using a shovel, or get in and out of the grave without needing a ladder. Six feet also helped keep bodies out of the hands of body snatchers. Medical schools in the early 1800s bought cadavers for anatomical study and dissection, and some people supplied the demand by digging up fresh corpses.

Gravesites reaching six feet helped prevent farmers from accidentally plowing up bodies.

And you had the “rule of thumb,” origin unknown, that said graves should be as deep as the dead person is tall. Today, individual states set the depth of a grave. Many say 18 inches of dirt, just a foot-and-a-half, on top of the casket lid or burial vault is fine. That’s not six feet down, it’s four feet.

Can you go to jail for dating a 15 year old?
Can you go to jail for dating a 15 year old?

In a Nutshell: Sex between an 18 year-old and a 15 year-old is illegal in California, meaning any touching of “private parts” of either, even with...

Read More »
Can a child have two fathers?
Can a child have two fathers?

Superfecundation is the fertilization of two or more ova from the same cycle by sperm from separate acts of sexual intercourse, which can lead to...

Read More »
Is it true what is yours will find you?
Is it true what is yours will find you?

In the simplest sense, it means that no matter how impossible, unimaginable, or unattainable, if it's meant to be—if it's truly destined as...

Read More »
What makes a man want a relationship?
What makes a man want a relationship?

Men Want A Sense Of Physical Connection It can be something as simple as a hug, holding hands, or a deep kiss. In a relationship, men and women...

Read More »