Can you fall in love immediately after a breakup?

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It's tough to find love. It's tougher to find love the second time around. Yes, things get ugly after a breakup, and falling in love again can be really tricky. But things happen, and we often fall for someone immediately after we suffer a heartbreak. However, you need to be extremely careful about this new situation, otherwise it can make a real mess of your life. If you are falling in love with someone else, good; but before you jump into a relationship, here's how you should approach this new phase of your life.

1. Look at the brighter side

Just because you have had a bitter experience, doesn’t mean you stop living your life. True love is timeless. But it doesn’t come with a timeslot, and hence you've got to look ahead in life and on the brighter side--instead of sitting in a corner, mourning over what didn’t work out.

2. Don’t compare

It’s very natural to compare your current with your ex, and that’s something most of us do. But here’s the thing: every individual is different. We love the cliche, all men are the same. But trust us, they aren't. Comparing your present with your past will only make it difficult for you to move ahead in life.

3. Take your time

Going slow in the new relationship should be your mantra. After a breakup, your mind is filled with negativity which will make you think bad thoughts about everything around you. You don’t want that, do you? Hence, it’s highly advisable to not rush into it. Go on a few dates, get to know him, and then decide whether he’s the one for you or not.

4. Don’t go back to your ex

This is perhaps the worst thought that can pop in your head when you think of your ex. You parted ways for a reason--going back will add to your stack of issues. You have given enough chances to your partner and your relationship to flourish, and yet it didn’t. So you know where the problem lies. Why add on to your grief?

5. Focus on the new person

Focussing on the new person will help you get over your ex sooner. Divert your mind towards the positive. Think about the good things that interest you about this new person in your life. Get to know him, and understand how he makes you feel. Make sure your basics are in place. It will make it easier for you to take a call about the future of your new alliance. Read iDiva for the latest in Bollywood, fashion looks, beauty and lifestyle news.

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Double meaning alert! This term can be used a few different ways depending on what stage of a relationship you’re in. If you’re just meeting someone, chances are if they ask you to Netflix and Chill, it’s more of a, ahem, physical request. No dating outside involved. But if you’ve been dating for quite some time and he or she says, “Babe, I’m tire. it’s been a long week, so let’s just have a Netflix and Chill kind of night.” That’s most likely exactly how it sounds, where the evening ends up is up to the two of you.

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