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Can two unmarried couple adopt a child?

You do not have to be married to adopt a child; however, if you are married, your spouse must be part of the adoption process except in rare cases where the court excuses your spouse from the adoption.

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Adoption can enlarge an existing family or create a brand-new one. The adoption process itself, however, can be plagued with legal obstacles and hurdles that can cause stress and anxiety for prospective parents. While adoption was once only an option for married couples, state laws have changed in recent years to reflect the societal changes regarding what constitutes a “family.” For example, unmarried couples could adopt a child in Massachusetts. In the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, a prospective adoptive parent must be at least 18 years of age (unless adopting the child of a spouse) and the child and/or adoptive parent must be a resident of Massachusetts. You do not have to be married to adopt a child; however, if you are married, your spouse must be part of the adoption process except in rare cases where the court excuses your spouse from the adoption. This means that single people, unmarried couples, and same-sex spouses/partners are all eligible to adopt a child in Massachusetts. The type of adoption you plan to pursue will impact, to some extent, the adoption process. The most common types of adoptions include:

Private adoption

Generally facilitated by an adoption attorney, a private or “birth mother” adoption only involves the birth mother and prospective adoptive parent(s). There is no agency involved. Note that Massachusetts does not allow private adoptions.

Agency adoption

An adoption agency acts as an intermediary, matching birth mothers with prospective adoptive parents. An agency adoption can be an open adoption or closed adoption.

State agency adoption

This involves adopting a child, or sibling group, that is a ward of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. Typically, these are children whose parents have had their parental rights terminated by a court.

Family adoption

A family adoption involves adopting a step-child, grandchild, niece/nephew, or any other family member. Adoption is a complex, and frequently, lengthy legal process. Navigating the steps required to finalize an adoption can be difficult without the assistance of an experienced attorney. The precise path you must follow to adopt a child as an unmarried couple will depend on your unique circumstances, however, some common steps include:

Petitioning to adopt

A petition must be filed with the appropriate court to initiate the adoption process. For an infant, this cannot occur until at least four days after birth.

Submitting the required documents

Numerous documents must be submitted with the petition or soon thereafter for the court to consider your request to adopt.

Completing a home study

Unless waived by the court, you must complete a home study home which is a written report based on interviews with an assigned social worker along with supporting documents provided by you. Typically, you will have three or four meetings with the social worker with at least two of these meetings taking place in your home.

Attending pre-adoption training

Both adoptive parents must attend at least ten hours of pre-adoption training.

Completing medical and background checks

Both adoptive parents, and any other adults living in the home, will need to submit to a criminal background check as well as submit medical records to the social worker conducting the home study.

Meeting the birth parent surrender/termination of rights requirements

Before a child can be adopted, the birth parents must consent, or their parental rights must have been terminated by the court.

Conducting a missing child search

You will need to respond to the Federal and Central Registers of Missing Children Search Request that is submitted to the court.

Finalizing the adoption

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What age do girls marry in Afghanistan?

Child marriages are illegal but widespread in Afghanistan. Afghanistan's minimum age of marriage for girls is 16 or 15 well below the internationally recommended standard of 18. These unions mainly happen in rural areas, especially along the borders with Pakistan.

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Child marriages are illegal but widespread in Afghanistan. Afghanistan’s minimum age of marriage for girls is 16 or 15 well below the internationally recommended standard of 18. These unions mainly happen in rural areas, especially along the borders with Pakistan. Child marriages are usually aimed at strengthening ties with rival families and tribes, as part of deals or to settle debts and disputes. Poor families often end up selling daughters for large dowries from wealthy people and the husbands are usually much older. The decisions to sell off girls for marriage are made by men, and wives, mothers, sisters and the girls themselves having little or no say. Nearly a tenth of Afghan adolescent females (aged 15–19) give birth every year as a consequence of early marriage and lack of access to reproductive health information and services. Girls and adolescents are far likelier to die of causes related to pregnancy than their older sisters. The pregnancy-related mortality ratio of women aged 15 to 19 in Afghanistan is estimated at 531 deaths per 100,000 live births compared to 257 deaths per 100,000 live births for young women between the ages of 20 and 24 years. Furthermore, a quarter of women suffering from obstetric fistula, which can condemn women to ill-health and ostracism, were below the age of 16 when they married. As chair of the United Nations taskforce on early marriage (which also includes UNICEF, UN Women, UNDP and UNAMA), UNFPA works closely with communities, religious leaders and youth in five provinces, where it leads grassroots campaigns among a wide, largely illiterate audience, using cartoons and other relevant communication materials to talk about the risks of early marriage including its health consequences.

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