Soulmate Gem
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Even if you believe you have no talent, anyone can learn to be an artist with the right training, tools, and passion. While becoming an artist will likely take more work than for someone who has a natural talent as an artist, art is like any skill that can be learned and improved upon.
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Read More »Even those with the most amazing artist talent still work really hard. The difference is that these people may pick up on art techniques more quickly and struggle less to turn their vision into reality. Talent may help to shorten the learning curve and get them ahead faster. If you think about professional artists, they are putting in full-time effort to improve upon their craft. Think about the amount of time and energy you put into your own profession. While talent is a factor, eventually it’s about putting in the elbow grease. None of us devote as much time to our art as professional artists do, unless we’re professional artists. It just isn’t doable. Yet, we’re comparing ourselves to them. We look at our art and we look at theirs and wonder where we went wrong. We wouldn’t do that with any other professionals like doctors or financial planners. Yes, those with artistic talent may start off with a stronger foundation, but at some point, the hours and hours of work they’ve put into improving their skills has to be accounted for. Artists work really freakin’ hard to get to where they’re at. That said, there is one important aspect of having talent that makes doing the hard work a bit easier. I’m awful at math. All through school, I struggled with math and really hated it. I don’t like struggling and feeling incompetant, so I decided to avoid the activity that made me feel that way. I spent my entire academic education trying to stay away from math as much as possible. Then, in college, I took a Chemistry class that really clicked with me. Science is cool though, right? What I didn’t realize was that I was suddenly excelling in math. There I was balancing equations and getting As on my exams and suddenly excelling in math. I was good at it and I really enjoyed it. I worked so hard in that Chemistry class partly because I was good at it and I really enjoyed being good at it. When we’re talented at something, we get told throughout our entire lives how good we are at it. Praise feels good. Looking at the work of others and seeing that ours is better also feels good. We like to do things we’re good at, which means that we’ll naturally work harder at them. Having artistic talent comes with the advantage of positive feedback. Even if mastering a certain skill is hard, the hard work is rewarding because there’s a history of accomplishment underneath it. There’s a sense of confidence that the skill can be achieved and overcome. Think about how I excelled in Chemistry without even realizing that I was doing math. Had I heard all about the math ahead of time, it might have killed my confidence and freaked me out about how I would perform. In the end, talent isn’t everything. Talent lays a strong foundation and goes a long way in building someone’s confidence in a skill. This can make it easier and more motivating for someone to do the hard work required to hone that skill and make the most out of it.
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