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At what age are you in your prime?

On average, you will reach your sexual peak in your 20s, your physical peak in your 30s, your mental peak in your 40s and 50s and at will be at your happiest and relaxed in your 60s. Really though, the most important message is life is a series of ups and downs, peaks and troughs.

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What the hell is ‘the prime of your life’? And how the hell do you know if you’re in it?

Do you believe it hits at a definitive age?

There’s good news: You’re probably in the prime of your life now. And there’s great news: the prime of your life comes at different times for different things. So essentially, you’re always prime for something. A recent investigation by the BBC examined everything from fitness and memory to general life satisfaction and sex drive. We think you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the findings.

Our sex lives and overall life satisfaction.

If our lives were a movie, we wouldn't even be having sex past 30. But this is real life. And it turns out sexual activity doesn't even START to decrease until we hit our late 50s. Woo-hoo! The BBC article and paper examining “sexually active life expectancy” reveal men who are 55 today can expect another 15 or so years of relatively frequent sex; women of that age can expect slightly more than a decade. The study also show that although the intercourse won't be as "vigorous" as it once was, a good 30 per cent of healthy people aged 65-74 will still enjoy sex at least once a week. And there is also a silver lining to a falling libido which hits around mid our mid-50s - an unexpected surge in our lust for life. It's a fact that might seem hard to fathom, given physical complaints rise around the same time. The boost comes down to finally learning how to balance our lives and emotions. Basically we stop sweating the small stuff and just start to enjoy our lives. People in good health also enjoy about five more years of sexual activity at the end of the life. Some might even consider it the elixir of life. So is there a peak time in our lives for sexual activity? It's really a quantity over quality thing and although there is no optimum time, it is heartening to know that it doesn't expire - it just becomes more considered.

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What happens when we don't use our spiritual gifts?

“God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another” (1 Peter 4:10 NLT). The Bible says in 1 Peter 4:10, “God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts.

The Bible says in 1 Peter 4:10, “God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another” (NLT). When you use your abilities to help each other, God is glorified. God wired you to make a contribution. God did not give you talents and abilities for your benefit. They are for the benefit of other people, and their talents are for the benefit of you. I am so grateful for people who are talented in areas that I’m not good at. For instance, I’m grateful for accountants. Because I stink at accounting! I’m grateful for people who know how to do taxes. I’m grateful for people who have mechanical ability. I couldn’t fix a carburetor if I had to. I wouldn’t even know where to find it!

Everybody has different talents.

God has given me some talents. One of my talents is taking the Word of God and making it clear for other people to understand. When I use that ability, you get blessed. My talent is for you. It’s to help you.

But here’s the point: You’ve got talents, too. Are you using them to bless others? Are you using them to help others?

If you don’t use the talents God gave you, other people get cheated. The way you bring glory to God is by using your talents. “Use your gifts well to serve one another.” God is glorified when you use your abilities to serve others.

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