Soulmate Gem
Photo by Monica Turlui Pexels Logo Photo: Monica Turlui

Are soulmates mirror?

The idea of a soulmate is so fascinating that everybody wants one. And, why not? The mere thought of having that special someone with whom you share a feeling of deep and natural affinity is so beautiful and heart-warming that it really makes us want such a 'someone'.

Will a soulmate cheat on you?
Will a soulmate cheat on you?

One, almost every soulmate union is subject to the possibility of temptation and cheating. The difference is how you communicate and integrate your...

Read More »
Can you have more than one soulmate?
Can you have more than one soulmate?

Your friends and family members can be soulmates, as well. So if you expand your definition of soulmate beyond the romantic sense, it's likely that...

Read More »

The idea of a soulmate is so fascinating that everybody wants one. And, why not? The mere thought of having that special someone with whom you share a feeling of deep and natural affinity is so beautiful and heart-warming that it really makes us want such a ‘someone’. But everyone has different ideas about soulmates. Some people believe that each of us has a soulmate, who we’re fated to meet—in this lifetime or another. Some others believe that a soulmate is literally the other half of our soul. Still others think that we have many soulmates who enter our lives, play certain important roles, and then exit. Whatever the belief, the broad picture of a soulmate is overly goody-goody, and therefore illusionary. If you are among those who think that your soulmate is someone who is perfectly compatible with you, then you might be in for a big disappointment because you may never find such a person. True, a soulmate brings you joy, encourages you, and shares your sorrows. But s/he also ticks you off big time. In my opinion, a true soulmate is the one who reminds you that you’re far from being the “nice, kind, perfect” soul that you think you are. S/he is the one who helps you discover that there is still work you have to do on yourself. In many ways, your soulmate completes you. In other words, s/he is the exact opposite of you—different in as many ways as it is possible to be different. But this difference is what offers you the opportunity to grow—as an individual and as a couple. Osho explains this beautifully: “If both partners are conscious of the fact that it is a meeting of opposites, that there is no need to make it a conflict, then it is a great opportunity to understand the opposite point of view and absorb it. Then the life of a man and woman together can become a beautiful harmony.” So, unless you and your partner recognise that being opposites helps both expand your horizons, you will continue to argue and fight with each other, and grow apart. But, if you understand and accept that your partner is someone who helps you get in touch with yourself, and reveals to you your imperfections, your life will be transformed. You will then see your partner as your mirror, who shows you your accurate reflection. And just like you don’t go against the mirror for showing you your own image—you will not be angry with your partner for being your reflector. So, that’s what a soulmate is in my opinion—a mirror, a reflector who you should be grateful to, for aiding your growth as a person and for helping you feel better.

Which God married his own daughter?
Which God married his own daughter?

Lord Brahma Answer is here : Yes, Lord Brahma married his own daughter. Mar 22, 2022

Read More »
How do I restart my life with no money?
How do I restart my life with no money?

Contents: Examine How You Got Here. Consider Low-Cost Living Options. Start with a Strict Budget. Reach Out for Assistance. Apply for Jobs. Begin...

Read More »

Is eye contact seducing?

Eyes can be a powerful tool when it comes to seduction. There are several ways you can use your eyes to display attraction and get someone interested in you. Make initial eye contact and, from there, make the most of your gaze.

This article was co-authored by Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT . Alysha Jeney is a Licensed Relationship Therapist, the Owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the Co-Founder of The Modern Love Box. She specializes in relationship therapy, intimacy building, and existential exploration. Alysha holds a BA in Psychology from The Metropolitan State University of Denver and an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy/Counseling from Regis University. She has been featured in publications such as The Washington Post and The Huffington Post. This article has been viewed 1,183,869 times.

Article Summary

X

To seduce someone using only your eyes, be the one to initiate eye contact with the other person to show that you're confident. When you look at them, flash them a genuine smile so they know you're friendly and wouldn't mind being approached. If they smile back and seem interested, try glancing them up and down or giving them a seductive look. Don't stare for too long or you could make them feel uncomfortable. Instead, occasionally look back at them and smile to show them that you're still interested. To learn how to seduce someone with your eyes during a conversation, scroll down!

Where does God sit in heaven?
Where does God sit in heaven?

The Throne of God is the reigning centre of God in the Abrahamic religions: primarily Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. The throne is said by...

Read More »
Why do I crave connection with people?
Why do I crave connection with people?

We live for human connection. We greatly desire relationships because they increase our confidence and self-esteem. They make us feel important,...

Read More »
How do twin flames feel when separated?
How do twin flames feel when separated?

Twin flame relationships could last weeks, months, years, or even lifetimes for some people. But when the separation phase sets in, twin flames go...

Read More »
What does God sees in you?
What does God sees in you?

We Are Precious and Honored in His Eyes In Isaiah 43:4, it says, “Since you are precious and honored in my sight and because I love you, I will...

Read More »